Modern Intimacy

Modern Intimacy

How to Set Sexpectations in Dating

Talking about sex, even with a casual partner, can help foster intimacy. Here’s how to do it.

Dr. Kate Balestrieri's avatar
Dr. Kate Balestrieri
May 16, 2023
∙ Paid

Too often in casual dating, we avoid talking about sex. Maybe out of fear of rejection or because expressing wants and needs early on feels too vulnerable. But whether you’re on date number two or deep into a situationship, try not to bypass the hard conversations, because talking about sex with a partner or potential partner can create more intimacy. 

C…

Keep reading with a 7-day free trial

Subscribe to Modern Intimacy to keep reading this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.

Already a paid subscriber? Sign in
© 2026 Modern Intimacy · Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start your SubstackGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture