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Understanding the “Pick Me” Girl and 9 Subtle Signs of Internalized Misogyny

Understanding the “Pick Me” Girl and 9 Subtle Signs of Internalized Misogyny

Chances are, you’ve had an internalized misogyny moment, and that’s OK. We’ve rounded up some resources to help you do the work.

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Dr. Kate Balestrieri
Mar 14, 2023
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If you’ve spent time on TikTok, chances are you’re familiar with the “pick me” girl. She claims to be super chill and gets along with men better than women. She dismisses feminism on the basis that women have nothing to complain about. 

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